Asé & Sage: Grounded & Glowing Kit Guidebook

Welcome to your personal oasis, the Grounded & Glowing Kit! This guide will walk you through a simple, 30-minute ritual designed to combat anxiety and help you reclaim your inner peace, even on the busiest days. But before we dive in, let's talk about anxiety itself.

Understanding Your Anxiety:

Anxiety is a normal human emotion that helps us stay alert and prepared for potential threats. However, for some of us, this feeling can become overwhelming and persistent, interfering with daily life. This could be high-functioning anxiety.

Signs of High-Functioning Anxiety:

  • You're constantly on edge or in a state of fight-or-flight.
  • You experience physical symptoms like tightness in your chest, racing heart, or sweaty palms, even in calm situations.
  • You're a perfectionist and have a strong need to be in control.
  • You're highly organized and productive, but it comes at the cost of feeling constantly stressed.
  • You may struggle to relax or unwind.

Remember: Anxiety shows up differently for everyone. Here's a quick check-in to see how you're feeling today:

Body:

  • Do I feel tense or have any aches and pains?
  • Is my heart racing or am I sweating?
  • Am I having trouble sleeping or staying asleep?

Mind:

  • Am I feeling worried or on edge?
  • Am I constantly replaying negative thoughts in my head?
  • Am I having trouble focusing or concentrating?

Emotions:

  • Am I feeling irritable or easily frustrated?
  • Am I feeling overwhelmed or out of control?
  • Am I avoiding situations or activities because of anxiety?

It's important to remember that anxiety is just one factor impacting your well-being. Stress from work, relationships, or other life events can also contribute. The Grounded & Glowing Kit provides tools to address both physical and mental aspects of anxiety, helping you create a holistic self-care routine.

Now, let's begin your grounding ritual!---

Part 1: Notice & Acknowledge - It's Okay to Not Be Okay

We all experience anxiety differently. Sometimes it's a low hum of worry in the background, and other times it feels like a tidal wave threatening to pull you under. The first step to managing your anxiety is simply noticing it and acknowledging it's there.

Here's the truth: Anxiety doesn't define you, no matter your background. It's a natural human response to stress, and millions of people experience it every day. However, for Black people in particular, acknowledging anxiety can be even more challenging. The pressure to be strong, the weight of systemic challenges, and the lack of culturally competent mental health resources can all add layers of complexity. 

Acknowledging your anxiety can feel like a rebellious act of self-care. It's saying, "I see what's happening, and I'm going to take steps to feel better."

Here are some ways to notice and acknowledge your anxiety without judgment:

  • Body Scan: Take a few quiet moments to focus on your body. Are your muscles tense? Is your heart racing?Simply noticing these physical sensations can be a powerful first step.
  • Label Your Feelings: Don't try to fight your feelings. Instead, acknowledge them with a simple label like "anxious," "stressed," or "overwhelmed."
  • Challenge Negative Thoughts: Anxiety can lead to negative self-talk. When you catch yourself thinking things like "I'm a failure" or "I can't handle this," challenge those thoughts with more realistic and empowering ones.

Remember: Acknowledging your anxiety is a sign of strength and self-awareness. It's the first step towards taking control and creating a calmer, more balanced life. Now, let's grab your Larvikite Worry Stone and take some deep breaths...

Part 2: Deep Breaths & Grounding

Deep breathing activates your body's relaxation response. We recommend the 4-7-8 technique:

  1. Inhale slowly through your nose for a count of 4.
  2. Hold your breath for a count of 7.
  3. Exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of 8.

Repeat this cycle several times while holding/rubbing your Larvikite thumb Stone. The smooth texture can be calming, and focusing on the stone helps you stay present in the moment.

Part 3: Tranquility Tribe Roller - Breathe Deep, Find Calm

Essential oils have been used for centuries for their therapeutic benefits. The Tranquility Tribe Roller combines a unique blend of these powerful oils specifically chosen to combat anxiety.

  • Calming Scents: When you inhale the Tranquility Tribe Roller, you'll experience calming scents like lavender and chamomile, which have been shown to promote relaxation and reduce stress.
  • Anxiety-Fighting Ingredients: This blend goes beyond calming scents. It also includes essential oils like bergamot, known for its mood-lifting properties, and clary sage, which can help ease tension and anxiety.

The Power of Crystals: The Tranquility Tribe Roller isn't just about essential oils. Lepidolite and Howlite crystals are incorporated to further enhance its calming effects.

  • Lepidolite: Nicknamed the "stone of peace," Lepidolite is known for its ability to soothe anxieties and promote emotional balance.
  • Howlite: This calming stone is believed to reduce stress and anger, leaving you feeling more centered and peaceful.

Together, the essential oils and crystals in the Tranquility Tribe Roller work synergistically to create a powerful experience of calm. Inhale deeply, let the soothing scents and crystal energy work their magic, and feel your anxiety melt away.


Part 4: Hydration Check - Why Water Matters for Calming Anxiety

Dehydration can actually worsen anxiety symptoms. When you're dehydrated, your body goes into stress mode, which can lead to increased heart rate, fatigue, and difficulty concentrating – all things that can make anxiety feel even worse.

Here's the science: Your brain is made up of about 73% water. When you're dehydrated, even slightly, your brain cells don't function as well. This can lead to impaired thinking, irritability, and difficulty managing stress – all of which can contribute to anxiety.

But there's good news! Simply reaching for a cool glass of water can be a powerful first step in calming your anxiety.Here's why it resonates with so many of us:

  • Focus & Control: Taking a moment to focus on the simple act of hydrating can be a grounding experience. It allows you to take a step back from the anxious thoughts spiraling in your head and focus on something you can control in the present moment – your well-being. In the face of anxiety, that sense of control can be incredibly empowering.
  • Self-Love in Action: Choosing to hydrate is a small act of self-care. It shows your body you care about its needs and are taking steps to feel your best. This self-loving gesture can have a ripple effect, promoting feelings of calmness and control. It's a way of saying, "I deserve to feel good," which is a powerful message, especially when dealing with anxiety.
  • Physical Benefits: Of course, hydration has a direct impact on your physical well-being. Drinking water replenishes your body's fluids, improves blood flow, and helps your brain function optimally. This can lead to increased energy levels, better focus, and a reduction in stress hormones – all factors that contribute to feeling calmer and more in control.

So, the next time you're feeling anxious, reach for a cool glass of water. It's a simple, yet powerful, way to take care of yourself and start feeling better.

Part 5: Clear the Space - Creating Calm Within & Without

Our environment can significantly impact our mood and well-being. Taking a few moments to create a physically and energetically calmer space can be a powerful tool in managing your anxiety.

Move & Declutter for 5 Minutes:

Sometimes, the best way to clear your head is to move your body! Set a timer for 5 minutes and engage in a quick decluttering session. Here are some ideas:

  • Tidy Up Your Workspace: Clear away papers, put pens back in their holders, and toss any unnecessary clutter. A clean workspace can feel more calming and focused.
  • Pick-Up Blitz: Walk around the room and pick up 5 things that are out of place. Put them away or return them to their designated spots. This small action can create a sense of order and accomplishment.
  • Quick Cleaning Burst: If you have a bit more energy, tackle a small cleaning task like wiping down your desk,sweeping the floor, or straightening up a bookshelf. Even a few minutes of physical activity can help shift your focus and reduce anxiety.

The Power of Movement: By incorporating a bit of movement into your space clearing routine, you're doing double duty. You're decluttering your physical space, which can feel calming and less overwhelming, while also getting your blood flowing and releasing some of that pent-up anxious energy.

Cleanse & Clear: Once you've completed your 5-minute decluttering blitz, it's time to cleanse your space energetically.This can involve:

  • Light & Air: Open your curtains or blinds to let in natural light, which can improve mood and reduce stress. If possible, open a window to bring in fresh air.

Smudging Ritual (Separate Safety Sheet Included):

This kit also includes a sage wand for smudging. Smudging is an ancient practice used by many cultures to cleanse a space of negative energy.  Please refer to the included safety sheet for proper smudging instructions before using the sage wand.

Here's a quick overview:

  1. Light the sage wand safely.
  2. Let the smoke cleanse your space. Walk around the perimeter of your room, focusing on corners and doorways,while visualizing any negative energy leaving the space.
  3. Set your intention. As you smudge, focus on creating a sense of calm and peace within your space.

By combining physical activity, space clearing, and smudging (if comfortable), you can create a more serene environment that supports your overall well-being and promotes feelings of calmness.


Part 6: Recharge Soak - Unwind & Reflect

It's time to truly unwind and recharge. Draw a warm bath and pour in the Recharge Soak Bath Salts. The Epsom and Himalayan salts work to relax your muscles, while the calming aromas of juniper, rose, lavender, and sage further promote relaxation. As you sink into the warm water, take a sip of your Balance & Bloom Tea. This soothing herbal blend combines calming herbs like spearmint and chamomile with mood-boosting lemon balm and raspberry leaf.

Reflection for Rejuvenation:

While you soak and sip your tea, take a few moments to reflect on your day and reconnect with yourself. Here are some questions to guide your self-reflection:

  • What are three things I'm grateful for today? Focusing on gratitude can shift your perspective and promote feelings of positivity and well-being.
  • What did I accomplish today, big or small? Recognizing your accomplishments, no matter how small, can boost your confidence and self-esteem.
  • What caused me stress or anxiety today? Identifying your triggers can help you develop strategies for managing them in the future.
  • What's one thing I can do to take care of myself tomorrow? Self-care isn't selfish, it's essential. Committing to one small act of self-care sets the tone for a more positive and balanced tomorrow.

By taking this time to unwind, reflect, and prioritize your well-being, you're setting yourself up for a calmer and more peaceful night's sleep.


Remember: This is just a starting point! Feel free to customize your ritual based on your needs. Use the Grounded & Glowing Kit as often as you need, and find what works best for you. Self-care isn't selfish – it's essential for showing up as your best, most radiant self in every area of your life.

Additional Tips: We Know This Stuff, Right?

You've probably heard all this before: exercise regularly, get enough sleep, practice mindfulness. We all nod our heads,knowing these are healthy habits. But sometimes, even though we know better, life gets busy, stress builds, and those good intentions fall by the wayside. The next thing you know, you're feeling overwhelmed and drained.

Here's the thing: Making small, consistent changes can have a big impact on your anxiety levels. So, even if you can't overhaul your entire life right now, start with something manageable. Maybe it's a 10-minute walk each day, a relaxing bedtime routine, or simply taking a few deep breaths when you feel anxious.

Here are some specific strategies to get you started:

  • Regular exercise: Physical activity is a great way to reduce stress and improve overall well-being. Even a short walk or some gentle stretching can make a difference.
  • Healthy sleep habits: Aim for 7-8 hours of sleep each night. Create a relaxing bedtime routine to wind down before sleep.
  • Mindfulness: Techniques like meditation or yoga can help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings without judgment. There are many free apps and online resources to get you started.
  • Explore Additional Support: If your anxiety feels overwhelming or significantly impacts your daily life, consider exploring additional support options. This could include therapy, workshops on stress management or anxiety reduction, or even joining a support group with others who understand similar experiences.

Remember, prioritizing your mental health is a sign of strength, not weakness. Many heroes throughout history have navigated mental health challenges, and you are not alone.

Beyond the basics, there are many creative and alternative approaches to managing anxiety. Here are a few ideas to get you started:

  • Sensory Techniques: Explore the calming effects of weighted blankets, coloring, chewing gum, or listening to binaural beats.
  • Creative Outlets: Unleash your creativity through adult coloring books, playing an instrument, journaling, or spending time in nature.
  • Lifestyle Practices: Cultivate gratitude, embrace laughter therapy, limit caffeine & alcohol, and prioritize a healthy diet.
  • Alternative Therapies: Consider acupuncture, massage therapy, or aromatherapy to promote relaxation and reduce anxiety.

Remember: It's important to find what works best for you. Experiment with different techniques and create a personalized toolkit for managing your anxiety.

We hope this guide helps you find your inner peace and reclaim control over your anxiety. 

Millions of people experience anxiety, and there are effective tools and resources available to help you manage it. Here are some additional things to keep in mind:

  • Be patient: Finding healthy ways to manage anxiety takes time and practice. Don't get discouraged if you don't see results immediately.
  • Celebrate small victories: Acknowledge your progress, no matter how small. Every step you take towards managing your anxiety is a win.
  • Be kind to yourself: Anxiety can be tough. Treat yourself with compassion and understanding.
  • Build a support system: Talk to friends, family, or a therapist about your anxiety. Having a strong community & support network can make a big difference. 

The Grounded & Glowing Kit is here to support you on your journey towards a calmer, more balanced you. By incorporating these tools and techniques into your daily routine, you can effectively manage your anxiety and live a life filled with peace, purpose, and productivity.



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